To cut a long story short I lent someone money (too much to write off). I know I was too trusting but that's the kind of person I was! The money wasn't forthcoming so I put a claim in to the courst. All was well and amicable and instalments were agreed and I was accepted that I would get it back gradually.
Then said person changed jobs and moved out of the area. 4 (out of 25) instalments were paid then nothing. Tried a friendly text reminder, no reply. Tried the electoral roll, phone book etc but drew a blank.
The only contact was a relative I know so I rang and asked if they could give me an address and thought it only fair that I explain why I need it, so I did. They too have lost touch but have said they will try to find details from other family members.
AIBU to contact them. I realise I may have lost a lot of money but don't want to let it drop until I've tried to enforce the court order. I do feel bad involving the family now.
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flatbroke · 19/08/2008 19:36
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