I have changed my name because to be honest I am mortified about what I am going to tell you but I really need some advice.
I have been with DH for 4 years now. Not long after we met he told me that when he was with his first wife he had visited prostitues on a number of occasions. He was very ashamed of this and said it was near the end of his marriage. His wife was rather emtionally abusive and controlling and he said that visiting these women made him feel in control.
Now I'm not justifying his actions, I have accepted his explanation but don't particullarly condone his behaviour.
Now DH and I have been going through a bit of a rough patch, and i admit its mostly down to me, I have been very depressed and moody and have given him a hard time over the last few months. I have sought treatment and i'm now slowly getting better.
But DH is acting weird, he's been home from work late a few times, which in itself is nothing but today he phoned me up to say he might go and see his children (from 1st marriage) after work. He NEVER does this on a monday, he has an arrangement with ex that he goes round two nights in the week tuesday and friday, and that we have them every other weekend. He has never just gone round on a didfferent night. He said he is not sure yet but will text me later.
So I Know I might be being very paranoid but I know how much I have put him through these past months and I'm terrified that he is returning to his old way of dealing with problems at home.
I know that being paranoid is part of depression and i hope thats all it is but could really do with an impartial opinion.
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Ffrankie · 18/08/2008 15:54
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