She is already not allowed here because of some nasty spiteful things she said, at a time I was really down.
She has respected that and DH takes the kids to visit her, It doesn't bother me at all that I haven't seen her in about 3 months but recently I was feeling bad about it.
Im 21 weeks pregnant and she hasn't seen my bump, she hasn't seen he scan pics, baby clothes etc ...
So she is unwell (we are not talking about a frail old lady here BTW, she is only 43!) having a few health problems and last week DH went out with her, he took a lot longer than expected and when he got home he said she had been sobbing in the car (I know you don't know her so its hard to understand but she does things like this all the time for sympathy)
so anyways she was crying and upset over being ill and asked DH when she could come back in the house.
We talked and I told DH he could invite her round.
He txted her and told her to pop in next time she was around.
The next day she pulls up and phones DH. He goes outside and talks for a bit.
She doesn't come in.
This happens again the next day.
By the 3rd day Im getting pissed off, shes been going on at DH for ages about how she misses the kids (she sees them at her house about 2/3 times a week) and wants to sort it out but never approaches the house.
So the next day me and DH are putting up babies new wardrobe, MIL is outside (stealing our broadband on her laptop ) she phones DH again, and he goes to the window, he shouts to her 'mum, we are just putting up a wardrobe for the baby ... would you like to come in and mind the boys for a while whilst we do it?'
She says yes,
I tell the boys that nana is coming in to see them and to play, they get all excited and play int heir room waiting,
20 mins pass, I look out of the window she is still on the laptop, the boys are shouting 'nana' at the stairgate,
another 10 minutes pass and we have finished the wardrobe.
I look out of the window to see MIL driving away!!
I am SOOOOO pissed off.
This woman hurt and offended me so bloody much, she put me in a bad place mentaly for a long time, and my confidence still isn't back to how it was...
she cries about not being allowed in and I hand out the olive branch and she does that?!
Im not attempting it again.
I've had it with her.
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in being pissed off with MIL and not wanting her to come to our home ever again?
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DisenchantedPlusBump · 18/08/2008 12:54
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