DH's best mate lives in Syria (DH's home country). He is in the process of applying for Canadian citizenship with his wife. They have one DS who is not even two and she is expecting their second child in about 3.5mths. They need to go to Canada on a regular basis as its a requirement of the application or something and were planning to stop in the UK and see us prior to going there.
Dh gets an e-mail from his friend today and opens it with me there, I express an interest as want to know when they are coming, dates, how long etc. I'm horrified to read that the DH is arguing with his wife (who is my friend) over the issue of leaving their son with her parents ....for a month!
I was at this and without thinking I leaned over and scrolled down to read the rest of the e-mail. This is wrong as was Dh's e-mail etc, but was so shocked. DH went mad and shut the computer down, but not before I read that his friend was going to 'insist' on this matter..
My heart is really bleeding for her as I feel that he will get his own way and I couldn't bear to leave my DS for a night let alone a month and now DH and I are rowing as I said he should tactfully advise his friend on how strong the motherhood bond is etc..DH said he said something along the lines of oh she won't like it but I'm feeling so ..I know its none of my business but I can't help it!
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to be really cross with DH's friend over this??
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PussinJimmyChoos · 14/08/2008 22:42
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