i don't think they would... my friends dh wants it but can't get it because he's too young! and you have to give consent aswell.. when dp had his snip we both had to go for the appointment and i had to sign too
Much too young I think. Could you discuss alternative low-risk contraception if he feels strongly 3 is enough. Maybe you could have a coil or something if he is worried about risks of other sorts? Seems a shame to remove your options so young. I agree he'd be unlikely to get a doc to do it at his age.
We have been together a long time, since 15 and that wouldn't happen..
AND I don't want to turn this into a 'you are so young an naive dis, thread' We are married, and married for life. He is not the kind to think anything else, strange to some I know, but we are an odd pair and have only ever had eyes for each other.
But anyways, thats NOT the issue
I do want more babies, and I think we would too in years to come.
It just seems like alot now as we will have 3 under 4 years old.
But in years to come our circumstances will be different one way or another and this path is final.
I think its silly to condemn yourself to a decision now, when you don' know how you will feel in the future.
I have never fallen pregnant actually, so trust in my contraception if he doesn't want anymore (for years to come)
hm...I think you definately need to talk about this....if you are married then it is a joint decision.... unless of couse you are unwilling to take contraceptive measures yourself after having the Baby that you are carrying right now....
If he only told you this morning I would have a serious and calm chat with him when kids in bed and tell him how you feel. Maybe if he sees how much it genuinly upsets you he will reconsider. Try not to get in to argument or negative conversation. ie your so selfish. Tryand keep it positive instead.
After our second he mentioned it to docs and she said too young. I disagreed anyhow and then got pg with number 3. He has mentioned it since getting pg with no 3 but they won't do anything until this one is born in case something goes wrong. By then i might have changed my mind. lol