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I dont know what to do! I really wish that ds dads parents would vanish.
Ds is 7 month old and i have split up with his dad. A huge reason for out constant fights was his mum and dads attitude towards me.
His mum always makes horrible comments towards me, and if i ever answered her back xp would tell me i was out of order. There is too much to list but i am going to have to list a few to justify myself a bit i feel.
When i was pregnant, his mum puffed her face up and said i looed like that, she said 'you get pregnant in your belly not your face' I was a size 14 before ds, i went up to a 16, now i am a 12 after joining a slim club. I am 5ft10 in hight and felt the comment was a bit ott, but she kept making them!
I am a vegatarian, she invited her son and i over for dinner, i have always been V for thre 4 years she has known me, but she made us sausage cassarol and said beggers cant be choosers. I was 8 month preg and had to walk to a take away for my own dinner on a rainy Nov night.
When ds was 2 weeks old my and xp went to the cinima, his parents watched him, when we got back his dad was so drunk he didnt know we had returned and his mum was steaming to. They drank a bottle of whisky between them. Ds was lying on the sofa wide awake and no one was bothering about him.
I have caught her talking to her friends about something really personal in my life - i cant even write what it is here annon.
She threw a fit in the street once because i didnt want to get in her car without a carseat for ds.
She always talks my parents down. She comments on every choice i make for ds.
His dad stormed into my house and started shouting and threatning my mum, standing right up in her face as if he was wanting a fight.
They say i am cruel and all the rest because i dont like ds staying over night at their home. I dont because they try and make me sleep in a different room from him so that they have hom. but i cant trust them i feel.
Also their hot water boiler broke down last summer, it hasn't been fixed yet. So there is no heating in the house and if you need water its gotto come from the kettle, so he cant even get a bath. And i dont know how they do it.
But the final straw came 2 weeks ago when i got called down because i havent bought them a bed for ds. I did buy them a carseat, stroller, high chair, walker and toys for their home. But when she last asked if ds could stay i said no because he has no bed there, and they started being really horrible because i wont buy them one, i cant afford to anyway, but prob wouldnt if i could. If i stay there i need to sleep on the floor and take a travel cot along with me.
I always give them the option to come here instead and they usually agree but dont show up and dont let me know why untill i contact them.
ANYWAY i have went on and on, but its not even half of my issues. Am i being unreasonable here, just wanting them to bugger off and leave us?
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doggyinthewindow · 12/08/2008 15:24
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