I have a large, young dog. She is boistrous, but well trained. She is very good with children. Friends with children who are scared of dogs have often asked specifically if they could spend time with my dog, as she is so well behaved and lovely with young children and babies. (I've been preggers or sprogging ever since we got the dog so it's all she knows!)
My friend's little boy is really scared of dogs. By nature, the little boy is a bold little thing, and it's not like him to be shrieky or scared. It has now got to the point where the dog has to be shut away for their entire visit. To be truthful, I find this a bit irritating because it's not as if the dog goes anywhere near the child - she just potters quietly about or sleeps on her bed - still, no point having the little boy terrified for the whole visit so away the dog goes. The thing that really bugs me though is that rather than trying to help the little boy, my friend uses the threat of my dog as a punishment; "If you do that again we'll let the dog in" and even "If you go through there the dog will eat you". It's like she actively wants her child to be afraid of dogs. It's so out of step with every other aspect of my friend's parenting.
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broccolispears · 12/08/2008 14:00
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