Going on a hen do soon, various events over a weekend. The provisional itinery includes three meals, two bars, two day-time events tbc (maybe spa session, matinee, that kind of thing). I don't think people are expected to go to all of it if they can't/don't want to - there's meant to be something for everyone. I'll probably go to about two-thirds, despite 3 under 4 and poor, the bride is quite a good friend. She knows nothing about the plans/arrangements.
The person organising it has asked for £20 from each attendee to pay for the bride's weekend. At first I had no problem with this but have started to think. I've never been on a hen do where the bride goes free before (although I've only been on about 4 before, including my own!). I don't mind coughing up if this is standard. Or even if it isn't, as I say she's quite a good friend. It's just I'v never come across it before.
So AIBU to feel the bride should pay for her own hen expenses?
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Not sure. What's your view? About a hen do.
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theinsider · 06/08/2008 20:08
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