Probably being a little oversensitive because MIL insisted on staying at our house from the day I went into labour - even though we'd already suggested that we'd prefer for her to stay in a hotel. She basically confronted me about this and I felt I had to back down. She was in our (small) house for the first two days after I came home with DD and didn't lift a finger - she didn't even leave the room when the midwife's visited and on one occasion even banged on the door for me to let her in after a trip to the supermarket as she couldn't wait for DH (who was locking the car) to get to the door with his key. This was 2 days after a long and difficult birth. She's now announced that she's coming to stay for a week and I don't feel that I've had any choice. I'm worried that she's going to just sit there all day creating more work for me. Am I being unfair? we only see her every 2 months or so as she lives at the other end of the country. DD is 12 weeks old and first grandchild.
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to think that a week is a bit long for MIL to visit?
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frans · 05/08/2008 16:09
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