Does he snore like this all the time or has he got hayfever or a cold or something ( which makes people irritable). If he snoresconstantly then he should see a doctor or at least consult a pharmacist because snoring is bad for his own health and maddening for a partner.
Is your spare room miles away from ds' room? I only ask because once dd (2) starts crying, there is absolutely no need for a monitor in this house (unfortunately....) And our house isn't particularly small.
personally id have said yes i am entitled to a decent nights sleep unless you want me to send ds into you when he wakes in the morning and YOU can get up with him. Understand about the snoring dp has woken me up often, unfortunately we dont have a spare room he just has to put up with being poked kicked and shoved. and i have made him get up with ds's next morning as penance for keeping me awake.