...dropped DS (who is very nearly 2) off at the childminder's this morning and we were talking about how he's really clingy at the mo. (I'm 38 weeks pregnant and I think he knows something's afoot and is a bit unsettled.) I didn't send his dummy because I'm trying to get him to keep it just for sleep times, which isn't usually a problem and he doesn't really mind normally.
When I came to pick him up, CM said he had been asking for his dummy. So she said to him:
"you can't have your dodie or mummy won't come back because she doesn't want to see you with it."
Then apparently "he just made a little noise and didn't mention it again, so it worked brilliantly!"
Freaking STUPID thing to say to a kid at the best of times, but when she knows he's a bit insecure at the moment I think it's beyond stupid.
Thing is, she is generally really lovely, and I don't think she meant it in a nasty way, she's just a bit...I dunno...dense?
There have been other issues recently but this has got me really pissed off and I'm thinking I won't send him again.
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if I'm really pissed off with the childminder for saying this....
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bohemianbint · 01/08/2008 18:49
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