i was at a baby and toddler grp this week. when i went in with ds at my heels and went over to the counter to pay, fiddling to find coins. Ds is nearly 16mths) a mum/ helper came over and said hello to him, then tried to get him to hold her hand. i could hear her saying "oh you don;t want to hold my hand" then she walked past me carrying a child- i realised it was a wriggling ds, took him to a table, put him on an adult chair, handed him a piece of chalk and held his hand to draw. it all happened really quickly,and ds struggled to get away and rushed back to me. she then came over and said hello.i don;t even know this womans name and feel cross she man handled ds without asking me and when he clearly didn;t like her and was wary of this strange woman.
she didn;t do this with any other children that day.
think i should have said something/ and maybe should if i go again. really interested in others opinions
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maidofallwork · 31/07/2008 22:35
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