She is now in her early 20s & was the result of a holiday fling. DP did not know of her existence until she was 18mths old.
She lives overseas with her mother, dp supports her financially.
The problem is she doesn't look like dp, his family or anyone on her mother's side . Her mother has stolen money from dp & used to blackmail dp by threatening to abandon dd if he did not transfer money to her bank account.
dp now wants her to stay over here & meet our ds, i've said not without DNA test first. he refuses. now having huge arguments about it.
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to ask dp to get a DNA test to see if dd from previous relationship is his??
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wickedstepmom · 27/07/2008 20:19
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