I am pg with first child. My friend has a ds of 18 months. She has been texting me for a while to say we should meet up, but everytime I suggest anything she cannot make it. Today I text her to sugest we meet up next Wed or Thurs, but she replied saying she couldn't as she is going on holiday on Fri and so would be busy. I was only suggesting a coffee, and I have friends with 2, 3 and 4 dcs who I know wouldn't miss out on the opportunity for a catch up. I know that going away with a toddler will be streesful but surely she could spare half and hour two days before she went away? This isn't the first time she has done this kind of thing. Am I being hopelessly naive in thinking this was a reasonable request - will I do the same when dc1 is born? Or is she subtly saying she just doesn't want to see me? I worry that she is cutting herself off. Her and her dp are both teachers and therefore off at the mo - so he could have surely looked after the dc for a bit?
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or very naive to think my friend could have met me for coffee?
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moulesfrites · 27/07/2008 16:18
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