DS1 has his last day at infant school today and they're doing a special "concert" in the hall. All of the YR2's are involved but a few have "extra" bits to do (like singing in a small choir etc) - including DS1.
Just over 2 weeks ago he (DS1) came home with a hand written invitation to both of us (which I photocopied so exH could have a copy too - and know when it was).
He said then that he'd probably come. Last night I texted him to remind him (as he'd sent a text saying "speak Saturday" about something else and I realised he'd forgotten and didn't want DS1 to be upset).
He replied to say that it wasn't "definite" would "depend on work" and tell DS1 that it was only a "maybe" for him to be there to watch him.
DS1 REALLY want him to be there (he's not been to many of their end of termt hings, and of course this one is "special" being the leavers concert).
I'm 99.99% certain that ex won't be there to watch DS1.
The "depends on work" thing is a pile of crap - he's still doing the same job that he had when we were together. He works "from home" and as long as he fits in his 37hrs a week between Monday morning, and Sunday 6pm he can do whatever hours he chooses - so long as he does a fair number of "prime" hours (4.30pm-9pm)
. He's living on his own now, so no balancing his work around me/the DS's so absolutely no reason he couldn't just take 2hrs out this afternoon to watch DS1. The concert will be finished by 3pm so he could still get 5hrs in afterwards.........
Makes me so that he can't do it for DS1 - thankfully DS1 understands that "maybe" for daddy (because of work) means "almost certainly not" and so won't be overly disappointed if he's not there.........but I'mm sure he'll still mention it to me.
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to expect exH to make more of an effort to attend DS1's leaving concert this afternoon????
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FAQ · 23/07/2008 12:32
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