so sister who is ten years younger getting married in Sept, her hen night this sat.
She's going into the nearest City, visting a spa, having a posh expensive meal and then onto some swanky bars before getting taxi home, she plans about 5 am.
So, all these girls who are going are ten years younger than me, single, no kids whereas I am married 3 little kids, shattered, have very little spare cash etc etc.
I have said to sister I'll go to the spa in the afternoon, go for the meal and stay for a drink after but then I'm going home as I don't want to be out all night and have to pay to get into some swanky club, taxi 25 miles home, drinks all night. I never stay til out the small hours unless with DH, we just don't do it.
Plus all the expense that is going with the wedding. My hair, makeup, nails, dress, shoes, 3 kids clothes, hair cuts, wedding present, special present for sis, have 2 DC's birthdays this month. I really can't afford it.
I did say this to her in the beginning and said if it was far away or too expensive I wouldn't be staying all night but she went ahead and booked anyway without asking me anything.
Anyway, she is very angry with me now for not going, and I do feel bad. AIBU?
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slowlygoingcrazy · 22/07/2008 18:16
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