and letting me carry on spending money or the banks money as normal. Im so peed grrrrrrr. He owed 2k on his credit card which i knew and which he was paying off each month and the today i looked at his bank statement and noticed hes £1000 into his overdraft already this has been the situation for over year-he was getting paid 3k month but has left the navy and taken a pay cut and is now on 2k a month and im a sahm.Im fuming because he pays a amount each month into my account and ive been spendin as normal. Hes even brough us a new dinning room table and taken us hoiliday weve been out for meals etc i feel sick. I hate going into my overdraft and only use credit cards in emergencies. If i had known the situation i could of helped pay it off before he started his new job. I actually feel i could walk out on him hes put us in the red unnessarily.