What are people's views on this? My DH and I have been having a lively debate on whether it's reasonable/sensible for children to be given presents by parents and other family members on their siblings' birthdays, to avoid that left-out feeling.
I think it's bonkers - why can't children just grow up accepting that birthdays are a special day for the person whose birthday it is, and everyone has their own special day. DH disagrees and thinks it's nice for siblings to have presents of their own to open. His family (who are very big on not hurting people's feelings and quite liable to put the idea into my DDs' heads that their feelings might be hurt when the idea had never occurred to them) have apparently always given presents to all children when one of them has a birthday.
I suppose it doesn't really matter - I'm not going to start a family feud over it! DD2 will have her first birthday next month and I can just see DD1, who is five, getting loads of new stuff out of it. She'll think it's great of course. But what's wrong with children dealing with the idea that there are days when someone else is the centre of attention?
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Treeny · 16/07/2008 14:27
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