Thanks for all your replies on my other thread where I explained that DP had been to a christening and didn't take me because he never takes me to anything like that which I find strange.
A few people asked if we do things together and when he's off work we do do lots of things together.
Anyway, we got our baby Christened on Sunday and I met all his mates and got on with them really, really well. The friend who's christening Dp had been at last week turned up with his girlfriend and baby. After quite some time I noticed that DP was sat over with his friends (briefly, as we were mingling around the room as we had over 100 people there) when a girl my age walked in and sat down with them. I knew her face, but didn't know her and she looked somewhat rough. I don't mean to sound snobby and horrible, but we're not rough. So anyway, they were all talking, then DP went off to mingle elsewhere. So later on he came over and we were sat chatting when he said his friend's girlfriend wanted to hold the baby. I took the baby over and she had a cuddle, when the other girl came and sat with us. We got talking and I got on fantastically well with them. DP seemed sort of uncomfortable and kept asking me if i was ok as though he was expecting me to hate all his friends or something. The girls asked me to go out with them and he said we couldn't go out as we didn't have a babysitter and arn't prepared to leave the baby with anyone yet as we're very overprotective. The other girl then said 'well you came out last week, so you mind the baby and she can come out this week'. We just sort of laughed it off.
So when we got home we were really happy as we'd had such a good day and we were just chilling out bathing the baby and I told him they'd asked me to go out with them in a few weeks and we've swapped numbers. He said no because he's taking me away that weekend. Then I suddenly realised what she'd said earlier.
So I asked him and it turned out he'd been out after the christening last week with his mates, his mate's girlfriend and her friends.
And yet he's claimed that other people's girlfriend's hadn't gone, which they had, and that he'd only been out with the lads.
He would go mad if it was the other way round.
So basically he didn't want me to go to the chirstening and then he went out with his mates and some other lasses. It could just be that lass, but still, it's inappropriate.
And at the christening she was going on about how she'd known him for years, and making me feel a little inadequate.
It's the fact that I'm not allowed to go out with lads, and wouldn't anyway as it's disrespectful, and yet he did that.
Also, he hated me talking to his lad friends, as though I'd run off with them or something.
What does everyone think to it?
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luvlymummy · 15/07/2008 12:44
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