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to think that my mother lying about a pregnancy is really wrong ?

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missfib · 13/07/2008 01:00

was speaking to my mum today who has just split from this bloke because he was a real loser cheating and so on he is now with another woman but found out that my mum has told them she was 15 weeks pregnant and lost baby and that she has been in hospial really ill and to top it all off she has told them baby was a boy!!! wtf
i am so mad about this because lying about a pregnancy and losing baby is really wrong to me,
i am 30 weeks pregnant and dont understand how she could lie like that ???
why did she tell me as well knowing that im pregnant and have had a miscarriage before knowing it might upset me.
aibu to think that she is a nutcase ???
even all the family think she is stupid but she has topped it off now.

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JamieJay · 13/07/2008 01:02

I'm sorry but your mum sounds like she has serious issues.

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Cynthia32 · 13/07/2008 01:09

sorry but this is VERY desperate housewives!

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missfib · 13/07/2008 01:20

i am just fed up with it all,she is acting like a child.

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widgypog · 13/07/2008 15:07

how old is your mum? she sounds like a teenager!!!!!!!1

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sleepycat · 13/07/2008 15:14

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NutterlyUts · 13/07/2008 15:17

trip trap... look at her name people..

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SaintGeorge · 13/07/2008 15:20

Look at my name Nutterly, doesn't mean I am a saint.

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itati · 13/07/2008 16:40

How do you know she was lying?

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dilemma456 · 13/07/2008 17:17

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milknosugar · 13/07/2008 17:29

honestly wouldnt know what to say to her, would prob steer clear for a considerable time til it has blown over. how horrid for you

nutterly - if she is a troll she has been hanging around a loooong time to post this, look at her profile. hate all this trip trap nonsense

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emma1977 · 13/07/2008 18:36

Your mum sounds like a nutjob.

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Twiglett · 13/07/2008 18:40

your mother sounds in pain, confused and hurt to me. She sounds lonely and scared and reaching out for empathy, sympathy and yes to hurt a man who has hurt her incredibly.

Of course it's a stupid decision but probably she just said it in a moment of pain.

She needs someone to talk to and someone to convince her that she is worthwhile and there are better people out there.

Sorry you're upset .. it was a stupid thing, but I assume the last thing she needs is your condemnation.

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Kimi · 13/07/2008 18:42

crazy/evil

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LongLiveGreenElizabeth · 13/07/2008 18:45

WOW! My Mum is 62, so just, WOW again.

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missfib · 13/07/2008 19:55

my mum is 44,
im not lying about this NutterlyUts,
she has been hurt by men many times,
she is my mum and im trying to be there for her through this tough time but she has upset me lying about this.
was so shocked when she told me this.

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