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to think that my mother lying about a pregnancy is really wrong ?

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missfib Sun 13-Jul-08 01:00:52

was speaking to my mum today who has just split from this bloke because he was a real loser cheating and so on he is now with another woman but found out that my mum has told them she was 15 weeks pregnant and lost baby and that she has been in hospial really ill and to top it all off she has told them baby was a boy!!! wtf
i am so mad about this because lying about a pregnancy and losing baby is really wrong to me,
i am 30 weeks pregnant and dont understand how she could lie like that ???
why did she tell me as well knowing that im pregnant and have had a miscarriage before knowing it might upset me.
aibu to think that she is a nutcase ???
even all the family think she is stupid but she has topped it off now.

JamieJay Sun 13-Jul-08 01:02:16

I'm sorry but your mum sounds like she has serious issues.

Cynthia32 Sun 13-Jul-08 01:09:25

sorry but this is VERY desperate housewives!

missfib Sun 13-Jul-08 01:20:25

i am just fed up with it all,she is acting like a child.

widgypog Sun 13-Jul-08 15:07:08

how old is your mum? she sounds like a teenager!!!!!!!1

sleepycat Sun 13-Jul-08 15:14:02

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NutterlyUts Sun 13-Jul-08 15:17:47

trip trap... look at her name people..

SaintGeorge Sun 13-Jul-08 15:20:26

Look at my name Nutterly, doesn't mean I am a saint.

itati Sun 13-Jul-08 16:40:13

How do you know she was lying?

dilemma456 Sun 13-Jul-08 17:17:43

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milknosugar Sun 13-Jul-08 17:29:11

honestly wouldnt know what to say to her, would prob steer clear for a considerable time til it has blown over. how horrid for you

nutterly - if she is a troll she has been hanging around a loooong time to post this, look at her profile. hate all this trip trap nonsense

emma1977 Sun 13-Jul-08 18:36:05

Your mum sounds like a nutjob.

Twiglett Sun 13-Jul-08 18:40:28

your mother sounds in pain, confused and hurt to me. She sounds lonely and scared and reaching out for empathy, sympathy and yes to hurt a man who has hurt her incredibly.

Of course it's a stupid decision but probably she just said it in a moment of pain.

She needs someone to talk to and someone to convince her that she is worthwhile and there are better people out there.

Sorry you're upset .. it was a stupid thing, but I assume the last thing she needs is your condemnation.

Kimi Sun 13-Jul-08 18:42:43


LongLiveGreenElizabeth Sun 13-Jul-08 18:45:06

WOW! My Mum is 62, so just, WOW again.

missfib Sun 13-Jul-08 19:55:42

my mum is 44,
im not lying about this NutterlyUts,
she has been hurt by men many times,
she is my mum and im trying to be there for her through this tough time but she has upset me lying about this.
was so shocked when she told me this.

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