He has been getting steadily fatter over the past 10 years, and now has a real middle aged type paunch that hangs over his trousers and sometimes strains his shirt buttons.
He talks alot about 'going on a diet' but it never lasts more than a few days.
Now, I love him, he is a wonderful husband and father, but this does make me fancy him less I'm afraid.
Worse, he takes no interest generally in his appearnace, hair/clothes etc, and often looks a mess.
I take this quite personally, I want him to want to look good for me. Why doesn't he care?
I know he would not like it all if I put on weight or made no effort, he takes alot of pride in me looking good.
I know if any overweight Mner's posted about thier Dh's objecting, the Dh would be heavily critised. So am I being unreasonable to mind?
AIBU?
To mind that my DH is overweight?
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