Okay, so if you have a church wedding, then I can see that but if you are not religious or of a different religion then its not surely...?
The legal requirements for a couple getting married are..
"In England and Wales the statutory declaration is:
I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I, may not be joined in matrimony to
It is followed by these contracting words:
I call upon these persons here present to witness that I, do take thee, , to be my lawful wedded husband/wife.
There are also two legal alternative declarations.
Declarations: I know of no legal reason why I, , may not be joined in marriage to .
Or by relying ?I am? top the question: Are you, _ free lawfully to marry?
These are followed by the contract:
I, , take you,_ to be my wedded wife/husband.
Or
I, _ take thee, _ to be my wedded wife/husband "
Now call me thick, but there is no reference to families there whatsoever.
I read a lot of threads on here where people seem to state that 'weddings are about families' and so X should happen or Y should be invited but why do people think that weddings must be about 'families'? Is it just their opinion? (In which case, that is just one view amongst many, and so cannot be projected onto other people or their weddings!)Or is there a more substantial reason? Cause to my mind, a civil marriage is about the legal joining of two people together. No more, no less. It just seems to be Mumsnet wisdom that 'weddings are about families' yet I do not understand this view and do not see why I should accept some random person's ideal of what a wedding is about without good reason. So all of you who think 'weddings are about families' please tell me the good reason you have for stating this view!
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Elkat · 11/07/2008 15:11
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