DP & I have very different opinions on this situation and it’s something we don’t really have any experience with so I would appreciate some advice on who is in the right here
DS is 12 and he text me very upset on Thursday about what I would say is bullying, this has been going on for a while but escalated massively on Thursday lunchtime and I went and picked him up from school, I asked the head of year to call me at this time
I told DS he didn’t have to go in school on Friday until I’d spoke to someone
Friday morning I ring and say he’s not coming in and ask again for someone to call me to discuss the situation, nobody does, so just before the end of the day I rang again and no answer so I left a message saying we will not be sending DS back into school until someone has rang me back
DP thinks he should go in on Monday because “he can’t just miss school for no reason and nothing will be solved in one phonecall anyway”
I don’t think for a minute it will all be solved in one phonecall but I don’t want to send him in until staff are at least aware of the situation (DS has never let me ring a teacher or anything before and the boys picking on him have always passed it off as playfulness/banter and have been pretending to be his friends so far, he’s now accepted they are not his friends and is letting me get involved so staff so far know nothing)
So - WIBU to keep him at home until a memeber of staff is made aware of the situation? Or send him in and hope someone rings, not knowing what will happen with these boys in the meantime?
Yabu - send him in
Yanbu- keep him home
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AIBU?
To keep DS home from school until a staff member rings me back?
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DietCokeChipsAndMayo · 27/11/2021 11:04
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Am I being unreasonable?
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