I am in shock.
DD has a very sweet lovely but extremly needy friend due to friends family dynamics, think not with her dm etc her dm is depressed it upsets friend.
I had a lot of time for this friend shes very sweet but I have been concerned about her being needy.
I have also been worried that DD seems to be spending every waking moment with this friend talking etc and not wanting to do stuff with us.
I asked to check her phone last night on the spot and i have found out they are in a relationship, its very intense and its always the friend being dpressed or sad, or moody or angry, and my dd calming her down.
they talk about lying in each others arms all night - kissing.
I am so upset she is literally just 14 and if ths was a boy no way would I allow sleep overs. I am not sure what to do now.
If I ban it - they will go closer together, but they cant have bloody sleep overs, I am horrified
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My daughters needy friend is actually her "lover" just turned 14/ sleepovers have actually been something "else"
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Daughterpanic · 26/10/2021 08:42
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Am I being unreasonable?
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