We live rurally. At the front of our house is a private lane, leading to small clusters of houses for around a mile along the road.
The school bus picks up kids at the B-road running along our house.
Diagram attached.
We've had issues with 1 neighbour parking on our land (yes, literally) and waiting for 10 mins until the bus picks their child up, turning on our grass, destroying it. Large boulders and sowing a load of replacement grass last summer put a stop to this, but we had a word with them, and asked them to park at the front of our house at drop off and pickup times, twice a day. It blocks our 2nd car parking space, and means i need to keep shutting the bedroom curtain to get dressed as they always arrive as i get changed for work , but we were also trying to be reasonable - there isn't anywhere else for parents to park, so don't mind it for 15min in the morning and 15min in the afternoons. (that's car 1 in my picture)
However, this morning we've found that other parents in the area are using the private lane to park with their engines running, while they wait on school bus pickups. Car 2 and Car 3, right outside our living room window with their engines running, blocking our main driveway meaning we can't get the car out.
DH and I agree that this is annoying but there's nothing we can do - we don't own the private road at the front of the house.
But this feels odd - the parents in question aren't people we know, but we know they are the closest 2 houses (literally about 200 yards up the road) and i can see this might be an issue for years and years to come, 2x a day as their kids are still young. No idea why they've started doing it now, maybe because they've seen car 1 parking at our house?
Would you park as these cars have done?
Would you say anything if you were us, bearing in mind we don't own the road and have zero legal support - the private land owner of the lane is not one of the cars doing this.
Are we being unreasonable to think this is a bit crap of the neighbours?
(I'm originally from the city so no idea of the rural ettiquette involved here)
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Would you ask neighbours to stop doing this? (parking, with amazing diagram)
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HopkinsLeftLeg · 20/10/2021 10:05
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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