I’ve (hopefully) attached a high quality diagram to explain the situation as it’s too confusing otherwise. Basically my next door neighbour built a kitchen extension last year which goes up to my garden wall. I have no problem with the extension, it doesn’t bother me at all. However, it’s been built underneath a large branch of one of my trees which has a TPO on it. When it’s very windy (we’re on top of a hill and pretty exposed) the branch seats up and down and bangs on their new kitchen roof.
Neighbour asked me if I could get the branch removed, said they’d be happy to pay for it. I said I was happy for it to be removed but I needed to apply via the council as it has a TPO on it (it’s a Scots Pine of that makes any difference at all). A man from the council came out and had a look and said I’m not allowed to cut it down as it makes up such a large proportion of the tree doing so would almost certainly kill the tree. He did some stress tests on it and said that even though it moves it’s in no danger of snapping or falling.
I told neighbour about this and they were absolutely furious with me. They said that I was deliberately making life in their house stressful and that I had no idea how much strain this tree had put on their lives . I told them if they were unhappy that they could phone the council and speak to the man themselves but they’ve decided that I must have bribed him in some way as there’s no possible way anyone would refuse this request. They then applied to the council again to have it removed, the council wouldn’t even come out, just said that they’d already done an assessment and as nothing had changed there was nothing further to discuss.
They are now contacting me at least twice a week telling me that the banging kept them awake and asking me what I’m going to do about it. I keep asking them what they want me to do and they just tell me that it’s my problem and that if it fell through their roof and killed them then I would be held responsible.
I don’t know what they want me to do! I’m not allowed to touch the tree. They built their extension underneath, knowing it was there and not asking me to get it assessed or anything before they started building.
Any suggestions? I don’t want to kill the tree as that genuinely could be dangerous and because the council have been contacted about it so many times I’m sure they’d investigate and find out if it had been done on purpose.
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ChristmasWithDC · 14/10/2021 10:10
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Am I being unreasonable?
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