To think this guy leaving me money is so strange?

[brooksandvicki]

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

[QueenoftheKarens]

He definitely thinks your a prostitute, sorry.

[GiraffeClimber]

Could be a mistake. Took it out of his trouser pocket and forgot about it.

[Blossomtoes]

He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute

I think he might …

[Cocomarine]

Maybe he knows you’re not a prostitute but gets off on the idea of using one so did it as part of his own kick?

I presume nothing obvious like you’d paid for a taxi back last night?

[Shoxfordian]

Not a very expensive one either

[LtDansLegs]

Did you get a taxi / food at all? Was he perhaps paying you back?


If not, just assume it was so mind blowing he thought he'd leave a tip. Or he thinks morning after pills are £20?

[DressedinStars]

Well he either thinks you are a, cheaply priced prostitute.

Or he found it on the floor and assumed it was yours, picked it up and put it on the side.

Or left it by accident.

[Holly60]

Just left it by mistake?

[DamnUserName21]

Cheapskate!!! Him, not you.

[icedcoffees]

Uh, are you sure he doesn't think you're a prostitute?

[MeridasMum]

He's vile. He knows you're not a prostitute but is insulting you by leaving what he thinks you would be worth if you were. Disgusting piece of shit.
So you know him? I'd shame him to everyone I know for that behaviour

[EmmalineC]

I'd be insulted - twenty quid for a shag? I'd be phoning him up and asking where the rest of the money was. If you're going to be mistaken for a sex worker, you may as well be mistaken for a high class one.

[OlympicProcrastinator]

It’s a thing some men do. They get off on it. It’s a deliberate insult. Sorry OP.

[Dillydollydingdong]

He was having a laugh!

[brooksandvicki]

No he knows I'm not a prostitute, I was speaking about my job last night and there's just no way. It was a one night stand there was no insinuation that I was a prostitute. And exactly, even if I was, £20 for the full night!! No he got an Uber through his account and bought a few drinks, didn't owe me a thing. Definitely not my £20.

I have his number, I'm tempted to message him and ask 🤣

[Cocomarine]

I really wouldn’t message him. I’m with @OlympicProcrastinator - it’s a pretty shitty insult. Not just the money = prostitute, but the insinuation that you’re only worth £20.

[DressedinStars]

@OlympicProcrastinator

It’s a thing some men do. They get off on it. It’s a deliberate insult. Sorry OP.

Just asked dp because I didn't believe this. But he said he has heard of it before but not for a long time though.

Can't believe someone would do that. Fucking awful

[Sparklfairy]

Is this like an uber rating? The higher the amount left, the better the night?

Sorry OP

[brooksandvicki]

It was really good sex as well 😱

[burritofan]

Yeah, he’s done it to be a dick. Donate it to a women’s charity or get a takeaway.

[Westfacing]

You must ask him!

[househuntinginthesouth]

Could he have left it on purpose so you contact him?

[Hoppinggreen]

I think it’s his shitty way of telling you that last night was not the start of a beautiful relationship

[Egghead68]

He’s a shit. Stay clear.

[Sparklfairy]

@Westfacing

You must ask him!

No way.