Hi all. I have posted here before about my mother. We have a history of conflict in our relationship, mostly because I find her quite controlling. Over the past year, since I had my son, we have argued, she has been apologetic for being too bossy and we have been getting on well. Anyway, she offered to watch my son for a day a week when I am back in work, he goes to nursery for 4 days and is with me for 1 day. I was very grateful and agreed as it would be financially helpful. I asked his nursery to drop a day from next month for her to look after him. She also helped me watch him this week when he was unwell and unable to go to nursery. After picking him up and bringing him home I noticed his hair was swept to one side. He has lovely hair, lots of it, I love it. I brushed his hair out and saw she had cut it, cut a very short uneven fringe for him and taken more off the sides. I was and am furious about it. I already asked nursery to keep him in for 4 days but haven't broken it to my mother yet. My husband thinks I am being too hasty and should work with her to come up with some rules. I just feel that I don't trust her. When I called her to speak (shout) to her about the hair cut, she said :oh you noticed that did you'. She did eventually apologise and promise to not do it again.
But from an outsider's perspective, am I over reacting? Aibu
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She gave my son a fringe. Aibu
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Buttercupmoon · 17/09/2021 11:27
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Am I being unreasonable?
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