Husband complaining he was woken up by daughter

alicema · 2021-09-17 09:21:39

My almost 4 year old daughter sometimes comes into our bedroom at night when she's needs the toilet. She still likes us to help her. This morning, at around 5am, she came in and woke me up telling me she needed a poo. As I didn't want to disturb my youngest child, I told her to use our en suite instead of taking her to family bathroom next to her sisters room. She did her business and I then took her quietly back to her bedroom. When I came back my DH was awake and was very angry with me for waking him and switching the light on. I thought he must have missed what had happened and explained that DD had been in to use the bathroom. He did know this info, but was so moody and angry that we didn't use the family bathroom. I know we all get a bit grumpy when we get woken up, but to think once you have kids you've got to get over that! He started saying "why didn't you close the en suite door?" I told him I did close it as much as I could, but there were clothes in the door and I didn't have chance to move them. He wasn't happy with this! He turned over and went back to sleep (or so I thought). This morning he took ages to get ready and had a very long shower. We ended up rushing out the door to get the girls to school/nursery on time. He said he was so tired as he was woken too early and couldn't get back to sleep. He's not usually like this thankfully. It is my job to get up in the night as he tends to need more sleep than me, so maybe I am being unfair. He does have a demanding job and works long hours. But he is being a bit of a dick here isn't he?

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