Bf & i recently moved in, i came to his area so naturally i don't have any friends here nor does my DD (9)
Bf's closest friend and wife have 2 kids, the daughter is the same age as mine so lately I've been arranging playdates.
Firstly, the wife doesn't drive so i have to go there to pick up her dd and bring her back to mine then obviously drop her home.
So far we have had 4 play dates, 2 initiated by me 2 initiated directly between the girls to which we obviously agreed.
The last couple of times the wife had asked if i could take the son also, which p'd me off as I'm not just offering to babysit, its a playdate for the girls.
Anyway the last playdate the girls had a fight, i didn't see what happened but they both had marks so i place the blame on both. Following this, the wife when asking what happened very much took the approach of, my poor dd, why did yours do this.
Keeping in mind this is the wife of my bf's best friend i simply said i wasn't there so couldn't say who started it etc but they both had marks and it was appalling behaviour from them both and perhaps they need a break from each other. That was that, she agreed.
Following that, her dd has been sending mine messages non stop, being nasty swearing etc. Mine is no longer allowed to reply or pick up the phone. Ive informed the mum. It is still continuing,
My attitude towards this is firstly I am the new girl in town, shouldnt it be her that tries to befriend me and welcome me to the area? Or at least return the favour, as the last 4 playdates were on me. (Not now that we've had this situation, but prior to that)
Also her dd is just not very nice and i am no longer willing for a friendship to form.
AIBU to completely stop all contact with her, to be honest that essentially means no more inviting them out for double dates etc as it is one sided anyway.
I obviously dont want bf to be upset but shes simply selfish!
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dorsetmamaa · 05/08/2021 15:08
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