NC for this as it’s incredibly outing.
For a few months now there have been two small kids playing in the road in our small estate. They have ZERO road sense. They have run in front of cars several times. They often just stop in the middle of the road in front of cars. They are 5 and 6 apparently.
Yesterday when leaving for work I had to slam on my brakes despite only going 5 mph round one of the three blind corners as the little girl sped into my path on her bike. I was really shaken, she was inches away from my bumper.
Not knowing who they belonged to I posted on the estate WhatsApp group to say what had happened, I said it’s not the first time (although the scariest) and that they need to be supervised.
The mum responded to say yeah but we live in a flat and they need outside play, and she can’t always be out there with them because she has to do housework.
I then got a flurry of private messages from other neighbours saying they’ve also had near misses and that the kids are sent out after breakfast and called in at tea time. Not one of them posted anything on the group.
Anyway I responded again saying that I appreciate they need outside time but that they need supervision. Got one line back saying ‘message me privately’.
I lost my rag a bit and said just supervise your kids ffs and I’m not interested in a private chat.
Anyway it all kicked off. Her husband chimed in, she said I’m parent shaming her and she has anxiety (not too anxious about the kids though are you hun) and basically left me feeling like the baddie.
So, was I being unreasonable to do this in the group? I had no idea who she was so couldn’t have messaged her to start with.
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To have done this in ‘public’? Unsupervised kids.
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WhatsAppening · 02/08/2021 09:43
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