Not to want to go on holiday with them?

SavingProp · 2021-07-30 07:36:39

MIL wants to go on a 4 day holiday to a beach area in the UK this August. She's wanting to get us all together for a break and is saying she wants to pay! It would be MIL, my H, our 2 boys, my SIL and her 3 girls, and BIL, his wife and their DS Trouble is, BIL's DS is autistic (severely) and violent. He's 4. Doesn't talk but hardest of all doesn't understand a simple sentence etc. An example of this would be him biting my youngest so hard a year ago, that he needed a stitch in his arm. It was like something from a horror movie! He just bites and scratches, no warning signs. He isn't a particularly frustrated child but just loves to bite and dig his nails in BIL and his wife also don't monitor his behaviour properly, as they're constantly letting him go off and play without following him. They seem to just hope for the best! If that was me, I'd be following his every move He's hurt SIL's girls too, although not as badly as my DS. He goes for children regularly and they're constantly reporting incidents to him biting severely when at his special school. They seem very stressed. It must be awful to have a child with such high care needs as his. AIBU not to want to go on holiday with them? MIL s proposing we share a house on a caravan site

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