I’m currently visiting a friend and she has a house cat that hasn’t been neutered. It’s been urinating all over her house and the smell is awful. I think she’s gotten used to it because although she’s mentioned that her cat is doing this, she doesn’t seem all that bothered by it - whereas I’m finding the smell really unpleasant and overpowering.
I’ve suggested that she keep the cat confined to a small room with a litter tray and it’s food and water bowls to help train it, but apart from that I haven’t really said anything, as I don’t want to be rude.
I’m here for one more night and I’m honestly really struggling with it. As soon as you enter the house you can smell it.. and the guest room I’m staying in has a really bad smell too, this cat has clearly been urinating in there and honestly I’m feeling a bit like maybe it would be best to cut the trip short - I’m due to leave tomorrow but I hate the idea of being rude and upsetting her by leaving today instead.
Does anyone have any tips on what to do?? I think I should probably stick it out and try to point out that she needs to get her cat trained to use it’s litter tray properly?
YANBU - leave early
YABU - it’s just one more night, stay until the end of your visit
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WandaLust101 · 30/07/2021 01:30
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