Looking for some advice, please.
I'm a dad of 2 young (under 10) kids, I have a girlfriend whom I've been with about 10 months and who has a 10-year-old. We do not live together.
I earn 4 or 5 times her salary.
I want to go on holiday, I can afford and am happy to pay for all 5 of us. She can't afford to contribute at all, so the option would be either we don't go, or I go with my 2 kids.
She doesn't seem to have any issues or concerns with me paying for us all.
Is this normal?
Am I being taken advantage of, or is it reasonable for me to pay for the 5 of us given the massive disparity in our incomes?
I see a future with my girlfriend but I just need someone to sanity check that I'm not being a complete idiot here.
Not sure it's important, but the price of a holiday would be around the £5-6k mark + all the extra you spend while away.
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Holidays costs when not living together
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ImMale · 29/07/2021 01:25
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Am I being unreasonable?
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