To ask what you think society judges the most about others?

[AnnaBellaCruella]

Is it race, religion, status or lifestyle? In my experience it’s how one parents. What’s your experience?

[EspressoDoubleShot]

Class esp accent
Weight,and appearance
Race

[AnnaBellaCruella]

@EspressoDoubleShot

Class esp accent
Weight,and appearance
Race

Gosh, yes I forgot about weight, that must by high on the list

[FreeSpirits]

Appearance

[AnnaBellaCruella]

@FreeSpirits

Appearance

I don’t care how someone looks but I guess a lot do

[SchrodingersImmigrant]

It depends on which particular society. In UK? Percieved class imho. There are places where shade of skin (even same race) is more important etc.

Overall. Anything that can be judged.

[FreeSpirits]

And at the moment vaccination status

[JustAWalkingTalkingCotBed]

Unfortunately in todays society and virtuality via social media I'd sadly say appearance. Not just looks but also where you are, what you're doing, who you're with...

[EspressoDoubleShot]

We all have conscious and unconscious bias. Appearance,class,education, race are the usual and of course individual foibles

[Bellend101]

Appearance 100%. That could be weight, physical ability, race... Appearance covers a lot of angles.

[Willwebebuyingnumber11]

Weight
Job
Where you live
What you drive
What school you send your children to
What you name your children
How you dress your children
What you wear


It’s a depressingly long list

[notanothertakeaway]

Tattoos

[JustAWalkingTalkingCotBed]

Personally I look at how kind they are to others, how much they love others and respect the world around them.

[Susannahmoody]

Accent
Race
Weight
Car you drive

[EspressoDoubleShot]

Ahh yes on mn a man not driving is seen as an individual failure and reason not to date.apparently

[TheCrowening]

Weight/appearance
Race and accent

[lifehappened]

Weight

[Susannahmoody]

Appearance is huge. People look at each other and think, are you my tribe?

[LittleRed53]

I think it's like that thing where as soon as you start thinking about buying a red car, you suddenly see red cars everywhere.

What I mean is, whatever your current situation is, someone will likely be judgey with you. So if you're long term single, it'll feel like people judge that. If you're pregnant, people judge that. If you dress in a specific way, or like expensive holidays, or are a parent...

People judge everything, you just tend to notice the most, the thing that most personally affects you at the time (IMO).

[NoIDontWatchLoveIsland]

Appearance.

[PicsInRed]

Daring to attempt to step outside your "box" i.e. race, sex, class etc.

The majority have an idea of a social "norm" (a stereotype) and only the best of the best can prevail over this - the rest will struggle, be punished, often fail.

It's much harder to escape one's allotted station in life than pop media is willing to admit the world is much less fair than our elites want us to understand.

[PicsInRed]

@Susannahmoody

Appearance is huge. People look at each other and think, are you my tribe?

This is so very true.

[EmeraldShamrock]

If I was to use MN as a guide then probably a lot.
I'm happy living my life so don't care much for how others judge me.
I can't change their mindset, I'm not harmful to anyone.

[freelions]

I agree that it is appearance

First impressions tend to be based on someone's appearance whether we like it or not. That's not to say that once you actually chat to someone and get to know them that first impressions can't be completely reversed though!

[IrishGirl2020]

Appearance and weight first and foremost (really wish this wasn’t the case but it is)
Then things like accent, race, where you live