DD (9) plays a sport for a local league team. She started a few months ago and training and matches carry on in the summer holidays. We attend all the training and matches we possibly can and even make re-arrangements if I've got plans. But it's the summer holidays now, some weeks she's at her dad's and we have a few staycations booked too. Meaning I, and others, have had to turn down attending these events.
The coach is lovely and I understand he volunteers his time, and I understand the worth of volunteers like him. I know the sport wouldn't operate if he didn't put the effort in. But we are constantly guilt tripped and berated for not attending matches. In the WhatsApp group he always says how disappointed he is, how "this is the third match that hasn't taken place because people can't make it, not really good enough guys" and always talks about what great lengths he's gone to to secure these matches only to cancel them, and how that is a waste of his time.
It's starting to bug me. Like me, other people have plans over the summer and I don't want to teach him how to such eggs but he can't be surprised when people are busy! WIBU to suggest maybe people give him their available dates over the summer and he go form there, rather than finding out after that people can't make it? Or is that really condescending?
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Guilt tripping sports coach - AIBU to be annoyed
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FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop · 22/07/2021 09:57
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