For some reason my possessions are a free for all and I’m sick of it
I’ve explained to the dc they can’t just help themselves to my things-yet they do. Repeatedly.
The consequences for this have been a telling off and having to replace items.
It happens with food (I’m vegan they aren’t yet they’ll eat my vegan chocolate and leave mine and not replace)
Make up will get taken from my room , used, not replaced.
Nobody asks to borrow ? They think it’s acceptable to go to someone else’s room / bag and take.
They’ve been taught about privacy and stealing yet this continues.
I dont see why I should now feel like I have to hide/lock things away ??
So I can’t have cold chocolate ss can’t leave it in the fridge.
Can’t leave my own things out in my own room.
I feel devalued almost as if they see me as a lesser person and they can take off me.
It’s only small items but I’ve had enough of it
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AIBU?
To think I shouldn’t have to feel like I need to lock my things up
258 replies
FedUpppp · 21/06/2021 10:04
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
1015 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
11%
You are NOT being unreasonable
89%
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