My DH is quiet and passive. It's his way. Would do anything to avoid confrontation.
We went out for a meal for Father's Day. Two adults and three teenagers. One of my meal sides comes in a pan. It was placed in front of me, handle facing me, no warning. I went to turn it around and the handle was red hot and badly burnt my hand. I rushed to the toilet to run it under cold water then told staff, who brought me ice. My DH sat silent throughout with his head down. We half heartedly finished the meal, me with a throbbing hand.
DH waited for me to get the bill and pay. I said to the staff more firmly that I'm not happy about the service or my hand. They said sorry. I paid and we left.
Now home and DH acts like nothing has happened. I wish I'd been more assertive at the restaurant and asked for a refund but my hand was hurting. I also didn't feel backed up.
Why didn't he take charge? Or is that asking too much?
Feeling like a fool. If it was the other way round I would've taken care of it.
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DH injured but DH stays silent
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jenbendy · 20/06/2021 17:11
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