I posted a while back about some issues I was having with my husband at the end of 2020.
Things have been good since. We spoke and he understood and everything had been fine.
Recently, LITTLE things are starting to creep back in in the last week.
So, this week my bag split at the till of the supermarket. They replaced everything that broke and apologised - yet he still says it’s my fault for overloading the bag. And keeps bringing it up.
I was painting some old furniture in the garden and spilt some on the decking and he came out in front of all the builders next door and told me to clean it up really loudly. I did and he watched. One of the builders asked if I was OK after.
Before this incident, he burnt a hole in our carpet from putting hot ash in a plastic bag. I just made a joke - but I was livid. I realised how it would be if it was the other way around.
At the weekend, we were going to the beach (we live by the coast). It was hot and our lovely older neighbours said they’d look after DD for the afternoon. I explicitly said not to take the dogs as it was hot and he agreed. Then he got annoyed I had apparently picked the wrong beach towel (not his favourite one) and then next thing he had the dogs leads on and they were coming. He kept asking me why I was quiet at the beach and then said ‘the dogs are hot, we shouldn’t have bought them’ and nipped them home. I REALLY wanted to say something.
And I constantly feel like he is poking me for reactions. Bringing up everything small, winding me up.
I don’t know. Am I being overly sensitive?
We’ve had some serious issues, but I thought they were ironed out.
I know it’s late. But I can’t sleep.
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TierTired87 · 15/06/2021 01:19
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Am I being unreasonable?
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