We received a message from a family member last Monday saying they had made a plan to come to our house that weekend with other family members and we could do them a bbq. They all live hours away so would need to stay over, one at our house and others would stay with my partner's mum, who lives nearby.
We had less than a week's notice of this plan and were not included in making it, we were just told what they had decided to do. Also presumably expected to sort out food for the bbq etc.
In fact we had made plans for the weekend and had to tell them we couldn't host them so it didn't happen.
We would have liked to see them as obviously we haven't seen people much recently. But we have a young baby so a bit more notice and also being consulted would have been nice! Also interesting that they expected us to be available.
Are we being unreasonable to expect this or are they?
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Dragonfly909 · 13/06/2021 10:54
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Am I being unreasonable?
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