I recently found out my mum gave 1 of her grandchildren £12,000 when they started university under a year ago. There are 8 grandchildren ages ranging from 3-22. I have 2 children and neither of mine or any other grandchildren have been given or have money put aside for them. The family home was sold 2 years ago by my mother for around £85,000 when my father passed and obviously no money was given to me or my siblings as it's my mums but rather than buy a new small home she decided to rent and have her savings to be her best egg - great but she's not done anything other than fritter it away, which is sad considering how hard my parents worked but again not my money. However I feel upset no other children are handed a penny when one has been handed so much. The grandkid that has the cash doesn't need it for fees so is now using it to live off rather than getting a PT job. I want to say something to my sibling but they feel that it's entitled as they done/do a lot to help out, or even say to my mum but again I know there's no point, I just feel as usual no one is treated fairly, my mum never treated us equally but as it's my children it's harder to swallow. Just need a moan but wonder what others would do?
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