AIBU to find old friend unbearable now?

StillAlwaysMe · 2021-05-14 18:52:17

Old school friend of mine. Has two toddler DC. I have one DC of a similar age. She never went back to work after first mat leave. Had second child pretty quickly. Is totally devoted to being a SAHM. Constant social media posts about tuff trays, ballet lessons, breast feeding and being stuck under sleeping babies, etc. Gave her kids strange edgy names. And makes out spending all day playing with her two DC is FUN. We've met up once since becoming parents but she has ignored me ever since. Probably because our parenting is so different. And honestly, I find her unbearable now. It's like she's completely devoid of personality after becoming a Mother. Everything is about her kids. My DC is my whole world obviously but I haven't really changed since becoming a parent and DC has to fit into my life rather than me changing my life to accommodate him, iyswim? I didn't breastfed. Don't do tuff trays or particularly enjoy playing with DC. Don't post on social media. Still have plenty of hobbies, time to myself, work PT. I don't know really, it just seems quite sad. But also really irritating. My kid is my world but my life doesn't revolve around him. There's just something about the way she is that drives me insane. She almost comes across as pathetic. I know that's mean but honestly she does.

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