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Backstory so as not to drip feed, DP has a history of alcohol issues. We were at breaking point before the first lockdown, approx 1 week before I said he had to give up alcohol permanently or leave.
He chose to give up alcohol.
DP works in the hospitality sector and yesterday returned to work after 14 months on furlough.
He had a beer after work, he says it's a one off, he says it's just how it is where he works and that's the norm. He can have 1 at work and that's it, he won't drink anymore than that.
I say no chance I'm not going back to a life of sitting here at night while he's at work wondering what state he will come home in and more importantly what he will kick off about! He's not a happy drunk, he's misserable, irritable and generally not very nice to be around.
Sober he's great, attentive to DC, helpful round the house etc.
So wise vipers ......
Tell me AIBU??
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AIBU?
To say he has to quit?
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Notgoingbacktothatlife · 13/05/2021 08:18
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
249 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
6%
You are NOT being unreasonable
94%
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