AIBU coffee run

[Starstella21]

Please settle a light hearted argument...

Our coffee machine is broken, my partner has got in the habit of making a 10 minute walk in the morning to the local french bakery to grab a coffee.
I've asked if he will get me one he says he doesn't want to carry two back...

AIBU to think this is selfish?!
I want a coffee!!

[Bananacocks]

What an arsehole!

[Maves]

That's bad and selfish. But why not just buy a coffee machine if you're going to waste money on take outs.

[Starstella21]

Our coffee machine is off for repair! Should be back next week

[Bumberlee]

Fucking mean bastard.

[Sciurus83]

WHAT!!! That is outrageous! What a horrible horrible man!

[CuriousaboutSamphire]

That's not a lighthearted argument. That's him telling you that you are not worth a minor inconvenience.

Weird and selfish!

[SatsumasOrClementines]

That’s so selfish! I absolutely couldn’t imagine my DP saying that, I’d be shocked.

But, if you both want coffee you should be taking it in turns to go and collect it.

[LaganinaBubble]

I would not be happy with that
But, why can't you go for coffee for both of you if its so close?

[JorisBonson]

Rude!

[Lassy1945]

Seriously
On paper this seems trivial
But actually it says a lot
An awful lot about how he sees you

[LuaDipa]

That is awful. I can’t believe anyone would be so selfish.

[Mellonsprite]

LTB ! No, seriously very selfish of him!

[Angrypregnantlady]

That's awful. How selfish. I'd never consider going and getting a coffee and not getting DH one as well.

[Lassy1945]

And you’re pregnant I’ve just read

You poor thing


This is a bad sign Op

[MSQuinn]

That’s really mean. I’d advise stopping something you do for him and say it’s much to hard. What a selfish got!

[UserTwice]

I think it's selfish of him not to get you a coffee if he's getting one for himself.

But I also think it's selfish not for you to offer to go half the time.

So a bit of both really.

[LemonRoses]

I’d be thinking I didn’t want to cook two suppers or wondering if he needed a carer.

[Lollypop701]

I’m petty... stop doing something for him😂 but not ok tbh

[CarlottaValdez]

Does he bring it straight back or walk around drinking it? If former he’s a real arse, if latter I’d say that’s understandable. I do a long walk first thing and sometimes pick a coffee up for the last bit. I wouldn’t carry a second around for half an hour and it would be cold by the time I got it home anyway.

[lemonsyellow]

Well, as long as you do the trip every other day.

[Starstella21]

Tbf he does usually make me tea and breakfast in bed each morning

[ChangedName4TheSakeOfIt]

I don't see where this is lighthearted.

Something so small is very clear of what he thinks of you. (And in case you don't realise, it's not much at all)

[Stormwhale]

My husband would 100% bring me a coffee. In fact I would go as far as to say that if it was only possible to bring one, he would bring me one, not himself. That is so callous op, it says a lot of what he thinks of you and how important it is to him to do things to help or please you. I would be really hurt.

[RozHuntleysStump]

That's actually awful. Thin end of the wedge too, I'll bet.

[Cocomarine]

Not lighthearted.