Name changed because I’m sure that IABU and I’m a bit scared of the fallout!
My PIL are anti vaccine, conspiracy theorists (don’t think Covid exists). They are refusing to get the vaccine.
I have a 3 year old and 5 month old. The 3 year old goes to nursery, but other than that we are incredibly careful and follow all rules. My 5 month old hasn’t met anyone because we are staying safe. None of us are CEV, but equally we have friends who are healthy, have had covid, and had a really awful time of it. So we really don’t want Covid in the house.
AIBU to say to my in laws that if they don’t have the vaccine, I won’t see them, and they won’t be seeing the grandchildren? Or is that a really shitty thing to do?
For context, I have never got on with them. They are extremely controlling. My husband has a very poor relationship with them. But our daughter loves her grandparents so we make sure they have a good relationship. My PIL are both still working, in offices, so exposed every day. If I see my PIL I don’t think I could see my own parents in the following two weeks because they are vulnerable (though have been vaccinated).
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AIBU to say ‘no vaccine, no seeing grandchildren’ to my anti vaccine in laws?
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Hfjshdhs · 07/03/2021 17:47
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Am I being unreasonable?
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