I am a BM for a close friend who has had to cancel her wedding / hen etc due to a Covid.
It was all booked etc and she is devastated. I suggested to the other bridesmaids that we send her some flowers on the weekend her hen was due to be (in Jan) and the wedding was supposed to be in 3 weeks and so suggested we do the same but with a bottle of champagne.
Almost everyone agreed it was a nice idea to show we are thinking of her, all they needed to do was transfer me £10.
Two have messaged me separately to say it's OTT and she's still getting married so there's nothing to be sad about and she didn't send them anything when one of them got promoted.
For reference - all in our 30s, these two are the only single ones in the BM group but we are all fine for money (earning 80k plus) and no kids.
AIBU to suggest this?
I just think if you're close enough to be her bridesmaid then just send over £10 and wish her well? I'm not asking them to organise anything etc.
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bridetobeornottobe · 03/03/2021 17:07
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