Married 5 years, together 13. I'm 38, he's 43.
2 DDs. Eldest 6, youngest 1.5.
I have asked DH to have the snip. Apart from when having DDs and since having youngest, I have been on contraception since I was 16. Only thing that suits me is the injection. I'm super fertile, after I came off the Depo it only took two months to fall with eldest and youngest was one time after I came off. We can't afford any more children and to be perfectly honest I'm struggling with two.
Our sex life is not existent, we both hate condoms. As soon as we had youngest we both said "no more" so I asked DH if he would have the snip. He got really angry and defensive and said absolutely no way and he asked why I couldn't go back on any form of contraception. I said that I wanted to give my body a break from pumping my body full of hormones.
I mentioned last night that when covid calms down that I was going to ask my G
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DH refusing to have the snip
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FirstladyKirkman · 27/02/2021 10:50
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