My bf and I were talking and I told him we should like each other for who we are. He has made a jokey little comment or two about my weight before. I've let it go each time as he has a way of putting his foot in it and not meaning it.
Anyway, during today's conversation, he said if I lost weight, sex might be easier, that his dick would go in. It goes in fine mostly, there are one or two positions that are tricky, but I'm flexible and we have an active sex life but he often has issues getting an erection, yet sometimes he can get one absolutely fine. I was upset by his comment and retorted that the problem is that his dick doesn't get hard. He's really pissed me off. He should like me for who I am, weight and all. I'm overweight because of mental health issues and endometriosis. I've never mentioned his erection problems in a negative way before and always been very supportive and nice when the erection hasn't happened.
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WonderingIf38 · 30/01/2021 18:43
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