I posted this in behaviour yesterday but no response and I need help before I smash my head against a wall.
I’m not sure if this is lockdown related or not but DD is seriously frustrating me lately. She has stopped listening/responding to me (even with consequences) until I eventually shout, will not tidy up her messes without help or more shouting (apparently “nanny never made me tidy up” 🙄 when she provided childcare pre-Covid), will talk back to me when I tell her off (e.g. if I say behave or time out, she’ll say “you behave or you’re going in time out”. She has also started saying “you’re ugly” or “you’re fat” in response to us when she is angry/upset. We are certain she learnt these words from her DGF (my FIL) because it’s how he speaks to MIL in a jokey way. They say to each other “oh shut up” in a lighthearted way too but we managed to get DD out of saying that one somehow. Anyway, I don’t feel like I’m being the best mum in this situation because I don’t know what to do and I can feel the situation getting away from me. By the afternoon I want to scream and have to stop myself from shouting FFS, which is obviously not going to help one bit. I appreciate I am mum so need to take responsibility. How can I get her to stop this behaviour?
YABU - this is normal behaviour
YANBU - you need to sort DD out (please give suggestions 🙏🏻)
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FurloughOrNo · 21/01/2021 16:32
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